Do you ever find yourself struggling - not knowing who you are, not confident in yourself, or feeling like you need to be something else in order to please others? Even as a Christian? All of these issues have to do with our identity, or what you believe about yourself. And the things we tend to find our identity in are the things that we define as "successful". For women, "success" oftentimes looks like beautiful, skinny, wanted by men, and somehow has it all together. For men, "success" can often